Sometimes...only Sometimes

Sometimes in our life we feel grilled with problems or depressions all around. A reason could be you failed in an exam, you scored less in which you know much, you felt cheated, or may be anything which has or had hurt you. We are always brave enough to fight for ourselves and probably when we fight for others also, we are somewhere fighting for ourselves only :) Its a really good and appreciable practice followed by everyone. We had taken our first step in life after falling a number of times. Now be it anything, we always try not giving up.

Success and failure are the only two aspects in our life. If one part is success then other has to be failure and vice-versa. Sometimes we often get confused deciding whether its our success on which we are feeling proud or its a failure in which we should realize it. Realizing is equally a good habit. Its because every time we realize, we improve ourself and improvement never ends.

When we talk of success, or rather other's success, we think why it was not me. We find ourselves ourselves equally deserving. Sometimes we are but the success goes to the most deserving person only.

What I, and many of us, consider life that life is a struggle. A struggle to win, protect and live. Its like an Arjuna in search of a Krishna. We plan to become Arjuna in the fight and may or may not find someone for Krishna. There may be a chance that a person is not a good fighter but its also true that everyone cannot fight and everyone cannot guide. I do not wish to write here what is the need of time.

When it comes to decisions, we want to take the perfect one. The decision which our role model, if any, would have taken if he/she were on our place. Our success depends on our decisions. We cannot be always right and so we cannot always pick the right one in times of need. But here also, its not all end. The main focus of my writing this blog is that we should try to accept our failures wherever we find it. Sometimes it is better to accept our failures when we know that nothing is left. I personally feel that a time comes in everyone life when even the toughest person feels like giving up. At that time, the person either accepts his/her failure and mistakes or pretends to have won. Pretending certainly does not lead to a new start. Whereas, if a person accepts his mistakes and take a lesson for the future, then nothing is better than that.

This will give him/her a good boost in next attempt. We all have seen an ant trying to climb a wall or tree with heavy load on its head and while climbing it falls several times but finally at the end it climbs. If we had listened to childhood stories, we would have heard of a king who had almost lost his battle but when he sees a small spider trying to build a net after many failures. He got an inspiration from it and then he again stood up for the battle and finally won it.

There are in-numerable examples which say the one and the same thing. I think the readers are good enough to make the sense out of it. I am not saying to weaken your will power thinking that there may be great chances of your loosing whatever you are going to do but I simply mean to accept the results with courage whether its your success or a failure. Remember, your success will give inspiration to others and your failure will give you a lesson which will let you know where you actually missed.

Lets wish my readers Merry Christmas and a very happy coming new year. Thanks for giving encouraging responses to my previous blogs :)

You Like a lot

There are many things which make a person different from others. Not just the story you like most or the subject you scored most in academics. It may also be the person whom you like most. Our life is full of choices at each step. The first choice is always made by you, the second one depends upon your first choice and then third depends upon second and so on...a lot choices you have already made and a many lot more to come in your....I mean our life because I am also one living :)

I would not say our life is decided on the basis of the choices made by us but still they have an remarkable effect on our life. I may remember the first choice which I made in my life and now want to change it a little bit but I don't think it was my fault. It was my perception that time which now have changed considerably so I think what I used to think was not non-sense, and its true. We often curse ourselves saying what I have done in past. We feel sorry to have done what we were not supposed to. Again its not a mistake, neither that time nor now.

The reason is also as simple. We see, we think and we do all what our perception asks us to do. As we grow, our perception changes, or rather I should say it develops and so we realize the fact.

What we like now, may not be so likable to us at later stage of life. Be it a paper, a flower, a scenery or sometimes even a person also. People may find my this statement in-correct, and the reason again is same, perception. My this blog may give rise to many questions in minds of readers and some might even ask me but friends, my blog is only to read, not to follow :)

I have not written anything which we don't know. We all know this and still we make our choices because we have to. Our choices, our decisions make us walk on the path of life. If the choices we made, comes out to be good one, we are lucky and if not, better luck next time. Thats all. Nothing extraordinary happens in our life and we like it...and we like a lot. :)

Due Dreams : Part-1

I never wanted to become a person who thinks for life....rather wanted to become a person for whom life thinks. A bit difference in thinking and nature makes one completely different from others in many assorted ways. Few people, few would not be a right word, so i should use generally people think we are same as others. We are born like, taught like, mannered like, and skilled like others. So we are a common man or women. What I believe is that God had been very good in mathematics and had quite a good collection of skills and natures. From them, he prepared in-numerable combinations and send us on earth.

I kept on thinking why I am not bored when I am alone. People generally feel their main cause of boredom is loneliness. I think every person should be alone for at least few hours a day/week depending upon his/her routine. That really makes sense for those who can listen to themselves. It has been rightly said: No one can escape from himself/herself and I never wanted to.

Children are said to be God gift. Now if you ask a child what he wishes to be in future. He'll definitely say I would like to become an actor like SRK or Hritik, or a lovely girl will blush comparing her with Aish, deepika or priyanka. That's what most of us think and thats true. If we could go in our past, we will say....Aaah..a few more hardwork and fortune like these stars and we would have been in their place. Outdoor shootings, Fame, attractive dresses and Money just cover our eyes.

We become crazy watching an airplane flying up in the air and may be some time wanted to fly like a bird or swim as fast as a dolphin. Their are many other dreams which were once our part of life. And now, we are grown up. Now we know that they were dreams...and just dreams which are only to be remembered and smile on our silly acts which were pretty stylish at childhood. If we see ourselves now, we'll find that we are still kids from inside. The only difference is our dreams have grown up. Instead of silly dreams, we now see big dreams. We no more desire to watch airplane flying up in the sky...we want to be inside it also :)

We now dont want to become stars like SRK, Hritik but want to be with them. Girls go mad on name of John and Boys go mad on name of every newly launched actoress.... :P.

An IT professional wants onsite opportunity, a businessman wants to run overseas business. A model wants to become successful actor/actress, and so on. The list here also never ends.

We see that dreams never end....but what ends is the lifetime of these dreams. The dreams we see in childhood are seldom fulfilled, the one's we in teenage, sometimes gets fulfilled later in life and the one we see in later life, are fulfilled very late.

I did not choose the topic: Due Dreams, after thinking a lot, as I said in very beginning I never think of life. I let life think of me.

The summary of this Part-1 is simply that our dreams are never fulfilled....they remain as Due Dreams.