Firstly, I may not like to do justice with some of my feelings. The reason for this reason could be may not be very simple but I may have to put some facts for that. We live in a society where we are supposed to give a name to every relationship we have and these names are already fixed and never change. These names include any blood relation, friend, stranger(surprisingly), or simply a well-wisher. Because of this, we are not expected to show the feelings we have towards a person we admire for any reason. This is somewhat correct also as if we analyze that what would have happened if we have done that, we would find that we should not have done that.
Secondly, we are not allowed to do so. A person may belong to a family having some reserve ideas. The ideas which they consider their base of their all moral values. They live their whole life believing in them. Since they are reserved, they have reserved relations, reserved expressions and reserved words which do not fulfill the need to do justice with few feelings. Again, they are not wrong as they have a long successful historical background which proves that their thinking is right and thus they do not want to change it.
Thirdly, our situations do not allow us to do. I may wish to describe this in depth. This reason lies in this category because it does not depends upon either which relation we are talking about, or to which type of family we belong to. This is as a result of what a person thinks and perceives. To start of with I would like to say that we all are born humans, brought up like son/daughter and live like a person. Then we become a friend and then a student and then a professional. In short, we are added with relations as we grow up. There comes a time when inside the same person, different relations argue with each other. A friend may argue with a human and both being a part of the same person, creates problem for that person. This happens when a person is not able to decide what to do in some extreme situations where he thinks from both perspectives i.e. as a friend also and a human being also. A friend may want to do something new or continue doing what he/she has been doing, while a human being wants to do otherwise. We don't to do injustice to any one of them and this causes a person loose his/her self-confidence. At times a friend dominates and other time the human being does so. If I want to see the winning side, I could see that I will definitely win irrespective of the fact who wins. Similarly if I want to see the loosing side, I would see that I will definitely loose whosoever wins. This leads to put an end to our feelings which belong to the part who loses the fight as the fight has to get over.
This is what I can make out in above situation. May be I am not able to see beyond that but this for sure that this problem can never be simple and the people facing it may not be good enough to take the correct decision in this case.
The biggest confusion comes when a person takes his decision solely by his heart because that keeps on changing from time to time. The person we hate one moment, may appear quite normal after some time and so we may have to change our behavior towards him/her. It is there fore rightly said that a person should make use of his mind and heart while making any decision as heart says what we should do and mind says what could be the possible results of our that action.
Life is not so simple to live. I believe that life becomes simple to those who do justice to very less of their feelings, a bit tough for those who do justice to a bit more of their feelings and complicated for those who try to do justice with most of their feelings. Its up to us only that which feelings we give more importance over others so that we loose less and live more making our life as simple as possible.
