Sometimes...only Sometimes

Sometimes in our life we feel grilled with problems or depressions all around. A reason could be you failed in an exam, you scored less in which you know much, you felt cheated, or may be anything which has or had hurt you. We are always brave enough to fight for ourselves and probably when we fight for others also, we are somewhere fighting for ourselves only :) Its a really good and appreciable practice followed by everyone. We had taken our first step in life after falling a number of times. Now be it anything, we always try not giving up.

Success and failure are the only two aspects in our life. If one part is success then other has to be failure and vice-versa. Sometimes we often get confused deciding whether its our success on which we are feeling proud or its a failure in which we should realize it. Realizing is equally a good habit. Its because every time we realize, we improve ourself and improvement never ends.

When we talk of success, or rather other's success, we think why it was not me. We find ourselves ourselves equally deserving. Sometimes we are but the success goes to the most deserving person only.

What I, and many of us, consider life that life is a struggle. A struggle to win, protect and live. Its like an Arjuna in search of a Krishna. We plan to become Arjuna in the fight and may or may not find someone for Krishna. There may be a chance that a person is not a good fighter but its also true that everyone cannot fight and everyone cannot guide. I do not wish to write here what is the need of time.

When it comes to decisions, we want to take the perfect one. The decision which our role model, if any, would have taken if he/she were on our place. Our success depends on our decisions. We cannot be always right and so we cannot always pick the right one in times of need. But here also, its not all end. The main focus of my writing this blog is that we should try to accept our failures wherever we find it. Sometimes it is better to accept our failures when we know that nothing is left. I personally feel that a time comes in everyone life when even the toughest person feels like giving up. At that time, the person either accepts his/her failure and mistakes or pretends to have won. Pretending certainly does not lead to a new start. Whereas, if a person accepts his mistakes and take a lesson for the future, then nothing is better than that.

This will give him/her a good boost in next attempt. We all have seen an ant trying to climb a wall or tree with heavy load on its head and while climbing it falls several times but finally at the end it climbs. If we had listened to childhood stories, we would have heard of a king who had almost lost his battle but when he sees a small spider trying to build a net after many failures. He got an inspiration from it and then he again stood up for the battle and finally won it.

There are in-numerable examples which say the one and the same thing. I think the readers are good enough to make the sense out of it. I am not saying to weaken your will power thinking that there may be great chances of your loosing whatever you are going to do but I simply mean to accept the results with courage whether its your success or a failure. Remember, your success will give inspiration to others and your failure will give you a lesson which will let you know where you actually missed.

Lets wish my readers Merry Christmas and a very happy coming new year. Thanks for giving encouraging responses to my previous blogs :)

You Like a lot

There are many things which make a person different from others. Not just the story you like most or the subject you scored most in academics. It may also be the person whom you like most. Our life is full of choices at each step. The first choice is always made by you, the second one depends upon your first choice and then third depends upon second and so on...a lot choices you have already made and a many lot more to come in your....I mean our life because I am also one living :)

I would not say our life is decided on the basis of the choices made by us but still they have an remarkable effect on our life. I may remember the first choice which I made in my life and now want to change it a little bit but I don't think it was my fault. It was my perception that time which now have changed considerably so I think what I used to think was not non-sense, and its true. We often curse ourselves saying what I have done in past. We feel sorry to have done what we were not supposed to. Again its not a mistake, neither that time nor now.

The reason is also as simple. We see, we think and we do all what our perception asks us to do. As we grow, our perception changes, or rather I should say it develops and so we realize the fact.

What we like now, may not be so likable to us at later stage of life. Be it a paper, a flower, a scenery or sometimes even a person also. People may find my this statement in-correct, and the reason again is same, perception. My this blog may give rise to many questions in minds of readers and some might even ask me but friends, my blog is only to read, not to follow :)

I have not written anything which we don't know. We all know this and still we make our choices because we have to. Our choices, our decisions make us walk on the path of life. If the choices we made, comes out to be good one, we are lucky and if not, better luck next time. Thats all. Nothing extraordinary happens in our life and we like it...and we like a lot. :)