Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Face it to bear it...

Its not always possible to face the truth. Truth comes to us in many ways just like sun has thousands of rays and we still cant count them, we also cannot which way our life can turn and that too at which moment. Truth may come from our that part of life in which we are living and may come from those left our parts as well. We are almost brave enough to face the truths or facts which come to us from the part we are living in. Its because we are so addicted to those countable points in our life which revolve around us, that we think that we have mastered our life.
Mastery is not a big thing in todays world where we can have solutions to our almost all the problems which we have. Now these problems are always those which we can see and feel their presence.
We teach others to face these problems telling them that be patient, do what you are supposed to do and everything will be alright. Sometimes our encouragement solves many problems of others life. These motivations are, at times, self motivating also. I mean to say that people may get inspired by their own deeds without even consulting others. We feel we lived a happy life by proving ourselves as milestones in our and other's life.
This is how the life of about 80% of people goes.
People always consider what happens in life of majority of people. Like if I say that parents say to their child that you practice maths from the very first day otherwise you will fail in exams later on. They say this because they have heard from majority of people that generally people have to start studying from the very first day of school or college otherwise we may lack behind. I may suggest my friend to purchase this company cell phone because mostly people say that it works fine and battery lasts long.
Could we see that again we are following what majority people say. We forget that we form the group of people which grows into majority.
So, when we follow at each and every step of life on the basis of what mostly people say, we live only 80% of our life. We follow only 80% of available paths and we select from only 80% of available options. That means we live only 80%.
When our life is limited to 80% how can we say that we are familiar to all the facts of our life. How could we so sure that I can face almost every problems which may or may not come in our life and so how can we prepare ourselves for everything. We prepare ourselves for 80% only.
As I said earlier that truths can come to us in many ways. It does not see whether it belongs to which segment of your life. It will just come to you and you have to face it. Finally you would be broken or you will prove yourself...may be once again if you are so strong.
What I want to say is... a person should not follow what is he supposed to. He should have his own perception and viewpoint. If I say you that go there...then you should have courage to ask why???....if not to me, then at least to yourself. May be you find your answer yourself. This may not help you always but will give you inner strength to withstand these tough situations of life.

Again, since this may add some more percentages to what you actually live, you live more. Definitely you'll be able to face the truth which may have never come in anyone's else life earlier and you can take right decision.
Nothing is 100%...believe me... but you can reach 99% of it. Believe in yourself. Don't think why you are different from others as we all are. Think only why you are so.