Absolutely no idea why it happened that I did not come up with something which I could write here. The decision to bring a change within had almost made me not to mention, just anything. I don't even like sharing anything that I always wanted to, be it small or big. Sometimes I feel the big black box within my head is getting smaller day by day though things in it are just adding up every moment.
I could still remember things that really used to matter to me. I can judge my past decisions in a better way now when the things have changed. I accepted that things change after certain time. Today, I have just logged in to write whatever is coming to me, my fingers typing just like anything without any topic.
Few days back, I thought of writing on a topic. The topic was "Defaming things...". I wanted to write how easily anything can be defamed. Any noble thought, noble action or a nice speech can be defamed like anything. If you have a good heart and want to do something good to others, few people will do it the way that will make it public much before you have done it and will make others feel how bad it is. Then when it will be your turn, your actions will be judged before even you start. So your kind wish will be mis-interpreted by everyone.
A 'Thank You' sometimes doesn't sound like 'Thank You' infact it sounds like it is accepted like anything else. This is because in today's world, even if you do not think good of someone and that person comes to know about it, he will not do anything to oppose you but will gently say "Thank You" with a smiling face so here is what has actually changed. Now we have a new definition of an act where a person accepts your thank you with a smiling face. Contestants in any reality show accept your kind or harsh words with a Thank You note. So, even if you are talking to them and saying something with your heart, you will get a Thank you and then you will keep on judging whether it was actually accepted or bitterly rejected. So, when anyone says to me "Thank You" I sometimes think why not this person accepted it without saying anything as that would have given me more comfort feeling than his Thank you has done to me.
Just a few days left for a New Year to arrive. I wish my readers to feel and understand the very basic fundamental of communication which says that more than half of the conversation is already done without words and before even we actually speak. So, everyone aware of what's the other person is feeling of you. Pretending looks good when in formal, in personal nobody wants to be formal.
Wishing everyone a very Happy and Prosperous Happy New Year 2015 !!!
I could still remember things that really used to matter to me. I can judge my past decisions in a better way now when the things have changed. I accepted that things change after certain time. Today, I have just logged in to write whatever is coming to me, my fingers typing just like anything without any topic.
Few days back, I thought of writing on a topic. The topic was "Defaming things...". I wanted to write how easily anything can be defamed. Any noble thought, noble action or a nice speech can be defamed like anything. If you have a good heart and want to do something good to others, few people will do it the way that will make it public much before you have done it and will make others feel how bad it is. Then when it will be your turn, your actions will be judged before even you start. So your kind wish will be mis-interpreted by everyone.
A 'Thank You' sometimes doesn't sound like 'Thank You' infact it sounds like it is accepted like anything else. This is because in today's world, even if you do not think good of someone and that person comes to know about it, he will not do anything to oppose you but will gently say "Thank You" with a smiling face so here is what has actually changed. Now we have a new definition of an act where a person accepts your thank you with a smiling face. Contestants in any reality show accept your kind or harsh words with a Thank You note. So, even if you are talking to them and saying something with your heart, you will get a Thank you and then you will keep on judging whether it was actually accepted or bitterly rejected. So, when anyone says to me "Thank You" I sometimes think why not this person accepted it without saying anything as that would have given me more comfort feeling than his Thank you has done to me.
Just a few days left for a New Year to arrive. I wish my readers to feel and understand the very basic fundamental of communication which says that more than half of the conversation is already done without words and before even we actually speak. So, everyone aware of what's the other person is feeling of you. Pretending looks good when in formal, in personal nobody wants to be formal.
Wishing everyone a very Happy and Prosperous Happy New Year 2015 !!!
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