We all came into this world alone and will leave it all alone. But in between the start and end of our lifetime we have to live and we cannot live alone. We always want that there should be some people in our life who can live with us, understand us and we are equally important to them as they are to us. No matter whatever we do and what ever we achieve, we are looser if we don't have anyone to share our things with. We are made to make some people live with us. They may be our relatives, friends or even neighbors. We have to be dependent on them. God has been fair enough in this matter. At the age when we cannot make out whom to bring in our life and whom to leave, he gives all of us, the two most precious people in our life. This age is the period when we are very small and have hardly entered into the world where we are surrounded with lots and lots of people. We call those two precious people our parents. They live for us and are our well wishers throughout our life. This is a perfect example of the fact that how much God loves us.
As we grow up, we start living our own life. The interference of our elders in our life decreases and we find ourselves suitable enough to make our decisions. Remember that this is also the gift of our parents who teach us what to do when. Its a true fact that our decisions are always based on what we are told to do since beginning. We only extend our elder's decisions in the way and directions we want to do. This direction may be right or wrong. If its right, we are idol to them. If not, we are not. While we grow, we have curiosity to explore the world in which we live in. We want to go out, travel from one place to another, live in various conditions and meet new-new people and we never get time to search for people who can be the part of our life. We have to select from them only. We tend to chose amongst them with whom we often like to meet or often feel comfortable with. While doing all this, we are actually looking for person who is exactly as we are and that is practically not possible.
I believe we meet hundreds of people in our life. Amongst them we like many of them and within this small group we love only a few. We start focusing our life on these few people only. With these few we share our joy, sorrow, achievements, tears, dreams, and secrets also. They are the best persons we get in our life and they are our friends. Friendship itself is a very pure relation which every individual has to live into. Friends are forever... this is not default but we have to make it like that. Every relation needs the presence of the respective persons in times of need. Sometimes we have to do something for the sake of our friend, which may not be of much value to us but could be of higher value to our friend. Remember, there are very less occasions to get big moments of happiness but there are lot of moments of small happiness which we miss waiting for big ones. So, do not wait for big moments, just enjoy with small ones till the times we do not get big ones. This will certainly bring charm in relations and will be a good memory in times when things are not so good.
We have not made this world and so we have to accept the things happening in our life. It may happen that the relations whom we admire the most, someday leave us, despite of our various efforts to save them. Trying to save what is important to us is something which we all do. Sometimes we succeed and sometimes we fail also. We feel dis hearted at that moment. People who believe that whatever happens, happens for good may also give up their hope of everything getting fine. The best thing we can do in this situation is to try at our best to find the cause of this and make things clear and sorted out. If still the things go wrong, we should better accept it.
Time is the best heeler and humans are made to forget things as time passes but certain things, certain people remain in our minds forever.
I would suggest my readers to respect every relation in your life and give it what it deserves. Be honest to yourself and the people who make you complete because if they are not complete, how could we.
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