Have never ever written two consecutive posts in two days here in Due Dreams, but today I actually felt like writing, one more. Being someone who likes to write each and every big, small thing that comes to me or I feel, I have written many things till now in past posts in Due Dreams. So many posts that I cannot remember all at once that what all points I have mentioned for what all topics. Each and every post has been the result of any instant thought that came in my mind and may be this is the reason why many of people who tried understanding it, did not succeed. Those who did, appreciated me, and those who did not, considered it to be a wastage of time by me. Whatever I wrote in my past blogs, were my experiences, some actually happened while others I simply thought of.
Regretting is an Art, what I honestly consider it to be. An Art because everyone have their own way of doing it. One may actually feel sorry and say it, while someone else might behave normally assuming that the other person will get the message and all messed up things will now be settled. A few have their signature steps or action of doing this. I may gift a chocolate or a flower or some other gift to regret my faults or I may simply say that I can think of what I have done and my dear friend can take it. Obviously this needs a level of understanding. Not everyone understands the way you regret to them.
We often say to the people who are quite close to us that we do not want any type of regret from them as we consider that we understand each other quite well but from deep inside our heart, we all want the act of regret from our friend whenever something wrong has been done by them. We understand their language and their actions and can very well understand when they say sorry to us. Even after a fight or an argument, if you find your dear friend talking to you the way you always have been, can be a form of regret, which means to forget what has happened and move ahead in life. Its always good to forgive others because we want them in our life forever.
No one on Earth is made perfect. We all make mistakes and thus have to regret for them. If we really care for the ones with whom we do wrong, we should regret in some way or the other. This brings a feeling of care and respect amongst people and the relation we have with them.
Regretting is an Art, what I honestly consider it to be. An Art because everyone have their own way of doing it. One may actually feel sorry and say it, while someone else might behave normally assuming that the other person will get the message and all messed up things will now be settled. A few have their signature steps or action of doing this. I may gift a chocolate or a flower or some other gift to regret my faults or I may simply say that I can think of what I have done and my dear friend can take it. Obviously this needs a level of understanding. Not everyone understands the way you regret to them.
We often say to the people who are quite close to us that we do not want any type of regret from them as we consider that we understand each other quite well but from deep inside our heart, we all want the act of regret from our friend whenever something wrong has been done by them. We understand their language and their actions and can very well understand when they say sorry to us. Even after a fight or an argument, if you find your dear friend talking to you the way you always have been, can be a form of regret, which means to forget what has happened and move ahead in life. Its always good to forgive others because we want them in our life forever.
No one on Earth is made perfect. We all make mistakes and thus have to regret for them. If we really care for the ones with whom we do wrong, we should regret in some way or the other. This brings a feeling of care and respect amongst people and the relation we have with them.
So many thoughts!
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